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    • About Joshua Pompey & The REAL Online Game

    Voted by DatingAdvice.Com as one of the top ten online dating experts in the world, dating coach, author, and world recognized expert in the field of online dating Joshua Pompey, is perhaps the most respected man in the industry and a pioneer in the world of online dating.

    Many years ago Joshua was a struggling online dater that transformed years of loneliness and frustration into the motivation to conquer the world of online dating.

    After eventually turning his life around and learning the secrets to attracting the most beautiful women online, Joshua realized that millions of men around the world were struggling just as bad as he once did.

    With an education background in English, as well having a teachers certification, it has always been in Joshua Pompey’s nature to help others.  It is for this reason he decided to make it his goal in life to help others avoid the pain he once did, by putting everything he learned through his suffering into writing.  And thus, The REAL Online Game was born.

    The REAL Online Game was developed as a solution to not only meeting women online, but meeting women online of the highest quality, no matter who you are, or what you look like.  This was the “regular” mans solution to finding happiness.

    Shortly after launching The REAL Online Game, Joshua Pompey was discovered and featured on some of the biggest sites in the world for his groundbreaking and unique advice.  He currently contributes as a columnist on J-Date.Com, and has been featured on Date.Com, Under30CEO, JMagazine and hundreds of other publications across the world.

    Joshua was even recruited by a top NYC matchmaking service, Sublime Matchmaking, to provide his unique talents with helping men to succeed with women.

    Since launching in 2009, The REAL Online Game has soared in popularity, expanding to four E-Books, the best profile writing service on the internet, and a full time adviser program.

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    TESTIMONIALS

    "Joshua Pompey is the premier online dating expert.  Hands down." - Jesse, Loveopolis.Jesse Epstein
    The best part about this E-Book is that it finds the most unique ways to use real life pick up in the online world without being sleazy at all. As someone who has studied some real life pick up, this book its not only more effect than all the other advice I’ve read but it finds the most unique ways to use these methods online. There really is nothing else like this book on the internet.-JonathanPoint Pleasant
    "Hi there! Just wanted to take a few to thank you guys for enlightening me, I have more date requests in the first week than I have had in a year! Awesome book! Again, thank you for opening my eyes to the real world of online dating." After asking Jeremy if we could use this in a testimonial he responded: "You can use it in a testimonial, I think more guys need to know how to express themselves! Just by the little changes in the way we communicate, make all the difference in the world. thx again!" Jeremy, Aurora ColoradoJeremy, Aurora Colorado
    To be perfectly honest my response rate has gone through the roof since I purchased a profile from the real online game. At the time I purchased one I wasn’t all that interested but received one as part of a packaged deal. Its amazing how good they made me look. I never realized how interesting I actually am until I saw my profile. Funny but true!RichardCincinnati
    When I came to online dating my story was very similar to how Joshua Pompey describes his life prior to The REAL Online Game. I was lonely, all I wanted was a girlfriend, and I had given up meeting women in real life. I came to online dating and just like Joshua, it was even worse. Truth be told, the only reason I bought this book was because I connected with his story so much. Well thank God I did. It wasn’t an overnight fix, but within a month I was going on dates, and within a couple months I had tons of dates, hook ups, and am not proud to say I have a girlfriend who I really care about. Thank you so much Joshua and best of luck everyone.Alex - N.J.
    "Getrealdates.com Is The Fool Proof Source In Online Dating, Legit, and the future front runner in online dating for men."  Kelly Sowell - Matchmaker and Relationship Expert
    I’ve been shy just about all of my life. I never felt comfortable meeting women at bars and was always conscious of people watching me get rejected. I personally love the idea of people getting to know me for me from behind a computer screen. The problem is that women would not get to know me until I learned the real online game! The real online game really pin points every mistake we all make and how to fix them. I was guilty of a million rookie mistakes that Joshua talks about in the book and I now realize that millions of guys out there are just like I was. The only difference is that now I jump ahead of the pack. I must also admit that the four phase instant messaging system is great. You are a genius Pompey.-GeneLas Vegas
    "Joshua Pompey is recognized around the world as an expert in the field of online dating and relationships. GetRealDates.com offers online dating tips, online dating guides for men and custom-made profiles. With his detail-oriented articles, Pompey breaks down each online dating subject so the steps to success are easy to follow and the goals are actually attainable."Dating Advice.Com


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