How To Write A Profile That Will Attract Any Woman / 10 Quick Tips To Success
Having trouble attracting women online? Learning how to write an online dating profile that builds attraction is a major key to success. In this article you will learn ten important tips that will get you on the path to success.
by Joshua Pompey
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For many men, writing a great profile often takes a backseat in the effort department.
This is a huge mistake.
Men who are born extremely good looking can get away with this to an extent. I know. Life’s not fair.
But for those of us who aren’t in the top ten percent looks wise, learning how to write a profile that sparks attraction is absolutely critical to success. In fact, this is arguably the MOST important aspect of getting women to respond to our emails.
It is a big myth that most guys are rejected online because of what they look like. The real reason most men are rejected online is not because of their looks, it is actually because of what they write (or fail to write) in their profiles.
1. Drop the nice guy routine.
Beautiful women are attracted to alpha males. If we appear overly nice in our profiles, we will give off that clingy, needy, and desperate vibe that women avoid at all costs.
There’s nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and most women do want one, but we don’t have to go out of our way to prove this in our profiles. There is a time and a place to reveal we are nice guys, but first we must establish attraction.
2. Be the alpha male.
The opposite of the “needy nice guy” is the alpha male. Women are naturally attracted to men who display alpha male qualities. Its purely instinctual.
This doesn’t mean we have to pretend we are big bad alpha males, even if we aren’t. But it does mean we should display qualities that alpha male men have, such as confidence, leadership characteristics, etc. Learning how to write online dating profiles that give off this vibe is very important, not to mention, attractive.
3. Understand attraction.
There are ten general qualities that nearly all women can’t help but feeling attracted to. Within these ten qualities, there are literally unlimited ways to display them in our profiles in ways that look natural and appealing to women. If we don’t understand how to write profiles that are infused with multiple attraction triggers , we are at a big disadvantage.
4. Avoid attraction killers.
Filling your online dating profile with attraction killers is even worse then not building any attraction to begin with. Millions of men unintentionally fill their profiles with attraction killers by using words and statements that come across as needy, clingy, and desperate.
Writing a profile with a statement as simple as “I’m really hoping to find a girl who is fun, smart, and attractive…” can destroy attraction.
Changing this statement to, ”The perfect girl for me should be fun, smart, and attractive…” sends a completely different message and creates a completely different impression about yourself. See if you can figure out the differences that this subtle change accomplishes!
5. Create an emotional response.
We need to learn how to write online dating profiles in ways that make women instantly feel an attraction towards us, as well as making them wonder, “What would it be like to be in a relationship with this person?” A well-written profile is not instantly forgettable. It makes women feel something for us, and driven to send us a message.
6. Show social approval.
Aside from wondering what it would be like to be with you when reading your profile, women will immediately wonder what their friends and family will think of you (These thoughts are probably not be conscious, but they are there). Learning how to write profiles in ways that imply social approval is very important.
For example, I might write:
“Most days of the week you can find me working in sales. This is without a doubt the ideal job for me. Not only do I get to follow my ambitions and see the results of my hard work, but I get to meet new and interesting people every day.”
This shows that we are ambitious (a big attraction builder), social, love our life, like being around people, and people like being around us, without actually coming out and saying it. All of this is accomplished within three simple sentences. And all of these qualities tap into building attraction in various ways.
It sure beats directly saying, “These days I work in sales and love my job.” Boring!
7. Using the right type of humor.
Being funny is a tremendous advantage and perhaps the most important aspect of learning how to write a profile that will draw women in. Showing we are funny builds attraction, and separates us from the millions of other boring men populating the Internet.
But perhaps most importantly, humor dramatically increases the odds of receiving a first date. Write a profile thats funny enough and women will think, “Even if the first date doesn’t work out, at least I’ll laugh and won’t be bored!”
The important thing is to know how to use the RIGHT type of humor, which should be a combination of cocky and funny.
8. Be different.
Women read hundreds of online dating profiles that are exactly the same. These hundreds of men all blur together into one boring person and fail to ignite interest. Separate yourself from the crowd by learning how to write a profile that is original and separates yourself from all the other cliches out there.
9. Understanding the art of language use to maintain interest.
Attention spans are short these days. We need to learn how to write a profile in ways that hook them right from the beginning, and hold that grip on their attention until the very end.
Every single world in your profile should have a deliberate purpose and emotional effect on the reader. If any part of your profile does not accomplish this, it shouldn’t be included.
10. Hire a professional.
Ok. Shoot me. This one may come off as self serving, but its actually not the reason I suggest this.
The truth of the matter is, some people are naturally good at math, some people are naturally good at fixing things, and some people are naturally good with words. I could teach you until the end of time how to write a great profile, but everyone has their limits.
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