Online Dating Questions To Ask Women
By Joshua Pompey
Looking for online dating questions to ask women? Writing questions that will have them excited to respond is simpler than one might imagine. It is all a matter of knowing the right kinds of questions to ask, as well as which emails you should be asking them in.
In this article I am going to discuss:
1. The questions you should never ask women online.
2. Analyze why these questions will never work.
3. Provide an example of how to use the questions you ask women online correctly.
Let’s start out with examples of online dating questions not to ask women in a first email:
1. Hey, what’s up?
2. Where do you usually hang out?
3. What do you like to do for fun?
Why are these terrible online dating questions to ask women?
First, keep in mind, these are only three examples of bad questions I frequently witness. I can go on for pages with questions just as bad as these. But let’s take a brief look at why the above examples are bad online dating questions to ask women.
The above questions send the follow signals:
We are lazy, boring, can’t think of anything interesting to say, just like every other guy messaging them, lack originality, spam the same questions out to every girl, etc. I can go on and on.
At the end of the day, these questions have one main problem in common: They are small talk questions that do not make any attempt to build attraction or create an emotional response.
So what are some good online dating questions to ask women?
Let me start out by saying, no question will be effective if not used in the right format. All great online dating questions to ask women should ideally be structured in the 1-2 emailing format.
Instead of running down a list of questions to ask women online, let’s take an example directly from The REAL Online Game Routines Manual, using a question found in “The Stereotype Routine.” Highly effective questions to ask women online don’t work, unless they are combined with great material.
For the sake of using the stereotype routine as an example, let’s pretend I live in New Jersey, which is known for having some stereotypes that aren’t exactly flattering for men. Here is an example of how I can combine a great routine, with a playful and interesting question to ask women online:
Subject: I have a confession to make…
So here’s the thing. You seem kind of interesting, but I need to get this off my chest before you start talking to me. I know I live in New Jersey, but, I don’t have spikey hair, wear sparkly shirts, have orange skin, or fist pump. Ever. Shocking I know. Is this just too crazy for a fellow Jersey girl such as yourself … :P ….
Phew, feels good to get that out there! Haha, so tell me, what makes you different from all the other Jersey girls out there, do you fall into any stereotypes yourself?
Lets analyze why this is the type of online dating question that we want to ask women:
In the example above, I am being fun, original, and playful. I am taking a standard question of asking where she is from and what she is like, and putting it into a context that makes it interesting, while adding multiple attraction builders. I will not explain them all but if one were to analyze this email, I am implying that she will talk to me (confidence), using humor, establishing commonalities separating myself from the competition, etc. I could go on and on.
This is a lot more entertaining and fun than saying, “so where are you from?” Can we say boring!
This type of question also keeps things simple.
Great online dating questions to ask women online should be easy to answer. The last thing you want to do is ask a question that requires long periods of time to answer. If women have to think too much when responding, they will skip to the next email.
Online dating questions to ask women should be fun, playful, easy to answer, and tap into attraction. While this article only analyzes brief example, these are the types of questions you want to ask, and how you want to use them.
You can find hundreds of great questions and routines to use in The REAL Online Game Routines Manual. Just remember, without a correctly built profile and knowing how to transition through follow up emails, routines such as these will never work!