4 Phone And Text Messaging Secrets For Attracting Women Online
by Joshua Pompey
Have you ever received a woman’s phone number online and than she flaked before a first date was even arranged?
I have. Millions have.
Excellent phone and Texting skills are the key to making sure this never happens again. Consider phone game to be the essential bridge between the online dating world and a first date. Proper phone game will also ensure that feelings of attraction stay high so that women will practically be dying to go out on a first date with you.
4 Phone & Text Messaging Secrets You Can Use Right Now:
1. Texting should always be your first form of contact.
Women don’t like to be caught off guard. When they see a phone number from a random guy and are not expecting it, they are very unlikely to pick up the phone. Even if we leave a message, they may not feel comfortable calling back.
Texting first allows the comfort to build up over a couple short and playful texts. If you learn the right tactics for starting up a good texting conversation (online conversation seeding), by the time you call these women for a date, they will be more than excited to pick up the phone.
2. Learn to pace your messages correctly.
If she is texting you back once every five minutes, text her back at a similar frequency. Texting quicker than her puts you in the position of being the chaser. It also keeps the anticipation low. We want to set the pace and not appear over eager.
3. Every now and then, go a very long time between texts.
Think about the last time you sent a text message to a girl you were interested in and were waiting a long time for her to respond. When she finally did, you probably felt completely relieved and were way happier then you would have been if she responded within a time frame that you expected. This is because waiting nervously gave you a chance to realize how attracted to her you are. We want to do the same thing. Every now and then make them realize how attracted to us they are.
Don’t do this very often, or you will appear to either be a jerk, or socially inept. Only once in a while.
4. Don’t wait too long to make your first contact.
The old myth of waiting 2 days to contact a woman is outdated, cliche, and ridiculous. Women are so aware of this “game” that it even becomes a turn off.
In reality online dating is extremely competitive. We want to get into contact within 24 hours so that these women don’t have time to be stolen away from us by other online pursuers. In fact, if you having read my phone game article on the importance of creating an emotional investment, making an effective phone call will help make it much easier to secure future dates.
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